My two most invaluable tools for pain control and comfort when I was caring for John at home were never mentioned by any of John’s doctors or nurses. Both were ultra low-tech and completely unrelated to drugs. The first I have already mentioned elsewhere in this blog– the hands-on ancient healing modality of Reiki. The second is so profoundly simple that mentioning it to others completely escaped my attention until this morning, when I applied it to myself as part of my own everyday early morning self-care ritual.
What I’m talking about is a tubular bag filled with rice or flaxseed that can be quickly heated in a microwave oven and applied to virtually any part of the body for instant, soothing relief for a wide variety of bodily discomforts. This is something that is readily available online or at most health food stores– but better yet, very workable and emminently inexpensive versions can be easily created at home.
One of John’s most constant sources of distress was what he described as “a bone-chilling cold” that would come over him suddenly, causing uncontrollable shivering. Our solution was to drape the warm rice bag, heated for a minute and a half at high temperature in the microwave, along his solar plexus area from chest to groin. This provided a deeply comforting, slightly moist warmth that lasted for at least half an hour and almost always allowed him to drift off into a deep and peaceful sleep– especially when I added Reiki along with the rice bag.
This heated rice bag therapy was a Godsend for all kinds of aches, pains and cancer-related discomforts. It soothed headaches and helped tight muscles to relax. John liked to drape it around his neck for the shoulder and neck pains that drugs didn’t seem to touch. When the shivering and bone-deep chill was particularly severe (as was often the case when he slipped into a cool bed), we used two heated rice bags, one along the solar plexus and the other between his legs. Within minutes, John was radically, visibly at ease. The transformation never ceased to amaze me.
Here’s a photo of my own homemade heatable rice bag:
This one is filled with rice, but flaxseed works equally well. The rice or flax can be mixed with herbal teas or with medicinal herbs, if you like. An even simpler variation would be to fill an extra-long sock with rice or flax and either knot the end or sew it closed. The strap handles are useful to hold the bag around the neck or over the shoulder. I added ribbon ties so that I can tie mine around my waist for soothing warmth on my decrepit back as I fix breakfast. Variations are limited only by your imagination.
Here’s a link for more information on how to make your own: http://www.cancerlynx.com/morericebag.html
For those who just don’t have the energy for do-it-yourself projects, you will find many ready-made products by Googling on “heatable rice bags”.
I know that this sounds ridiculously, almost impossibly simplistic, but I cannot describe the peace that this humble tool brought to my beloved, long-suffering husband. May many other cancer patients benefit from a similar peace and comfort…
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