Category Archives: doctor patient relationship

GREAT BEDSIDE MANNER DOES NOT NECCESSARILY MEAN SKILLFUL DOCTOR

It came down to a simple choice: the most skilled doctor or the kindest doctor. Continue reading

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HOW DOCTORS DELIVER BAD NEWS TO PATIENTS

the ways in which a doctor’s sometimes unconscious decisions about how to present information impacts his patient Continue reading

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HOW LONG DO I HAVE, DOCTOR?

When therapy is available, physicians will blithely ignore prognosis. Continue reading

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Shedding Light On the Cancer Journey: the book

My dear and faithful readers: As of today, over 71,000 people have read and hopefully benefited from this blog– beyond my wildest expectation when I started this project  10 years ago. Such strong support has led me to turn Shedding … Continue reading

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PALLIATIVE CARE AND HOSPICE– SIMILAR BUT NOT EQUAL

If your palliative care team is not both skillful and fearless in dealing with spiritual and emotional pain, then pain control will not be optimal and peace of mind always elusive. Continue reading

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WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE AND WHY ARE THEY ALL IN MY ROOM?–TEACHING HOSPITAL HIERARCHY

This nuts-and-bolts explanation clarifies some of the crucial aspects of how “The System” works that we could never figure out on our own. Continue reading

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MEDICAL MISCOMMUNICATION CAUSES NEEDLESS PATIENT SUFFERING

The medical professionals we were counting on the co-ordinate John’s care sometimes seemed to be not communicating at all. Continue reading

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PATIENT GRATITUDE INSPIRES BETTER MEDICAL CARE

These stories seem to me to illustrate that the effects of gratitude flow in more than one direction. Continue reading

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COLON CANCER STAGING– A HEADACHE AND A HEARTACHE

The staging of colon cancer remains, to this day, one of the impenetrable mysteries of our cancer journey. Continue reading

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Compassion 101: lessons for a young doctor

John’s doctor was acting as though I didn’t exist. He was willfully, deliberately excluding me. Continue reading

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